I wasn’t planning on making this video in 2026, but I had an interesting experience recently that I think is worth sharing.
It’s one of those “once in a lifetime” things that ended up teaching me some surprising lessons, especially on a topic I know many of you are curious about penis size, performance, and body image. So let’s dive into it.
The Accidental Nude Beach Experience
A few weeks ago, I went paragliding in San Diego—great views, and lots of fun, but I ended up feeling a bit seasick while soaring through the sky.
After landing, my friend suggested we take a walk, and, by chance, we stumbled upon a nude beach.
Now, let me tell you, this wasn’t exactly on the itinerary! But, curiosity got the better of us, so we decided to check it out.
As soon as we got there, all sorts of thoughts started racing through my head.
You know, as guys, we tend to size ourselves up, comparing ourselves to others—especially when it comes to things like penis size.
This is a topic I get tons of questions about, and I’ve even created an entire free email course on increasing penis size, and girth and achieving harder, fuller erections.
The Reality of Penis Size
Here’s the thing: most of us, whether we admit it or not, have at some point worried about our penis size.
And unfortunately, a lot of that stress comes from comparing ourselves to unrealistic standards, especially those set by porn. What I saw at the beach was eye-opening.
In reality, most men are “normal” size or even smaller than you might expect. And guess what?
No one there was in perfect shape.
It’s like comparing yourself to Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime or a top-level bodybuilder like Chris Bumstead—most of us will never look like that, no matter how hard we train.
The same goes for penis size in porn. Porn stars are handpicked for their genetics, just like athletes, and comparing yourself to them is setting yourself up for disappointment.
Some Interesting Observations
One of the more unexpected things I noticed was the difference in body proportions.
Some guys with smaller penises had noticeably large testicles, which sparked a little theory in my mind.
I wondered if maybe their testosterone levels weren’t optimal, and their testicles were compensating by producing more testosterone.
It’s a bit of a “Dr. Sam theory,” but it made me think about how the body balances hormones. There’s no scientific proof behind this, but it’s interesting to consider how testosterone, size, and performance might be interconnected.
Another thing that stood out was how many of the guys weren’t “showers,” meaning they didn’t appear very large when flaccid.
Some might be “growers,” where their size increases significantly when erect, while others might just have small penises, period.
But here’s the key takeaway: nobody cared.
The idea that you need to have a giant penis to feel confident or attractive is a myth. You don’t need to be a porn star to feel good about yourself.
Tips for Feeling Confident (Manscaping and More)
Something else I noticed at the beach was how many guys had lots of pubic hair, which can actually make your penis look smaller.
A simple tip I always recommend is manscaping—trimming that hair can make a big difference in how large you appear.
It’s a quick and easy way to boost your confidence, and I have a video on that too.
Why Some Guys Seemed Bigger
There were two guys at the beach who were notably larger than the others, and I noticed something interesting—they kept pulling on their penises.
This reminded me of a technique I talked about in my email course called jelqing, which involves stretching and massaging the penis to potentially increase size over time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it’s a method some people swear by. Seeing these guys consistently “pulling” made me wonder if they were using similar techniques to enhance their size.
My Personal Nude Beach Experience
Now, I didn’t plan to get naked at the beach, but, well…nature called!
I needed to use the bathroom badly, and there were no facilities nearby.
My date suggested I go into the ocean, and after a moment of hesitation, I stripped down and dove in.
It was my first time going fully nude in public, and while it was a bit nerve-wracking at first, I realized something important—nobody cared.
There was no judgment, no weird looks.
It was a liberating experience and a reminder that most of the insecurities we hold onto are just in our heads.
Conclusion: Confidence Over Comparison
The biggest takeaway from my accidental nude beach trip is this: stop comparing yourself to unrealistic standards.
Whether it’s porn, professional athletes, or celebrities, these comparisons are harmful and unnecessary.
In reality, most people are just like you—average and normal.
The key is to feel confident in your own skin and focus on what you can improve for yourself, not based on others.
For those of you still curious about improving your penis size, performance, or overall confidence, I’ve got links to my free email course, which covers techniques like jelqing, increasing girth, and more.
But remember, confidence comes from within, not from how you measure up to others.


